Max is a real jerk. A long time ago, the successful lawyer had turned over all the routine duties of family life to his wife Nathalie.His comfort and leisure time were a far greater priority. Sell the roadster and buy an efficient family car? No way!But then, Max’s fast-paced life suddenly screeches to a halt when Nathalie is hospitalized for several weeks with a complicated fracture.Alone with their two children and the dog he hates, Max quickly reaches the boiling point.As if having to play father was not bad enough, he is shocked to the core when he discovers passionate love letters written to his wife and signed “From G. in love”. Feeling that his life is slipping out of control, Max’s first impulse is to find out who his rival is. Then it dawns on him – could the way he has treated his wife be the reason why she has sought out another lover?Now Max attempts to see his situation from a different point of view. Last week he was ready to plan the yearly guys’ vacation he takes with his best buddy, but now things have changed.Max recognizes just how much he needs Nathalie’s humor, her organizing talent and her optimism, but also just how important to him she and his family really are. Max tries to discover the mysterious lover’s identity, but because of his new insight, he takes an additional step.Unfortunately, when he learns that the mystery man is Gregor, Max realizes that not only does the man have all those qualities - he is very attractive as well. His struggle to become a better husband and father suddenly becomes far more difficult.Hoping to knock Gregor out of the picture and get back in Nathalie’s good graces, Max makes an appointment with a successful life coach. But turning his life around is far more difficult than he had imagined.To make matters worse, Gregor turns out to be a loving, family-oriented man just what Nathalie needs. Max is desperate – he knows there is a real chance that he might lose Nathalie and the children.Willing to put everything on the line to keep his family intact, Max makes the biggest sacrifice of his life. Then something happens that is the very last thing he could have ever counted on…
导演说是预算不足才拍成黑白的…电影不错，但没有获取到新的内容
每当看到一部好电影都会让我更加痛恨光腚总局
知识分子的心灵史。入世与出世，求道与济世，理想与现实。丁氏的流放心路让人不禁想起了苏东坡、王阳明的历史故事。
写鱼谱的因是为了格物，最后的果是成就了一个大才。这个大才最后是经世济民还是回到兹山并不重要，现实故事中并没有这么个人也不重要，他是一个集体性的符号，该传承的那些都传承下来了。不然，怎么会有这部片子呢？
之前看到有评论说很可惜，这剧本可以国内拍的，看完觉得纯属放屁，这内核是大陆不可能拍出来且上映的
《兹山鱼谱》是我认为最好的韩国电影。
黑白画面有着淡雅的质感，是拍出了意境。只不过摄影依然不用心，末尾和《思悼》一模一样的回忆可以说差劲透了。
前半部几乎可以作为「苏轼儋州流放记」代餐，几乎平替！后半部男猪带领男二真潜心考察研究海岛生物百科，这倒像是「如果流放到儋州的人从苏轼换成苏颂会怎样」的AU了【然而转念一想，苏颂这样的大科学家根本不会被流放呀，人家正大光明拿着郭嘉经费在朝廷做天文仪器呀！】其实男猪虽然口口声声反对朱子性理学，但他在逆境中坚持「格物致知」倒也挺得朱子真传的。只不过看不过去的是，济世的理念和预设的崇高感似乎仅能在长幼男人身上传帮带，男人再怎么梦想「天下无王，不分贵贱」，他永远不会把平等的目光从广袤的宇宙苍生收回来，投到眼前的老婆女儿身上。东亚三国反儒反皇权的电影里女性是失声的，你反个XX
像编纂字典、故宫修文物甚至守灯塔，都是如此。
一种沧凉的安慰感。「所以我不研究善变、难懂的人类，要转去研究通透、明净的事物，用事物来忘却我。」
根据同名书的前言改编，显然虚构了不少情节。编导利用当时的背景，利用了两个真实的人物：被流放到小岛的官员丁若铨，与当地渔夫昌大，演绎了一段故事，并在故事中蕴含了许多的想法。故事讲述得还算流畅，情节不单薄，但说教意味甚浓，表演也嫌夸张。拍成黑白片也无必要。想想日韩就他们的历史事件与人物拍摄了多少在国际上颇有影响的影片，而面对更加丰富得多的史料，我们又讲述了什么拿得出手的历史故事呢？空说文化影响力是没用的。
艺术感满满的黑白电影，蕴含的道理看似白天黑海般的分明，也如波涛涌动无穷无尽的回味。贱民向往的白，其实比黑还要黑。朱子显明的道，其实比一切真实都要虚无。天下万事难道不都是这样的么。黑与白对照出世间理想与现实的交错。老丁能坦然放弃信仰，保全了兄弟。老丁真逸世之人，兹山鱼谱是一种活着的只对人生认真的态度。
看完的第一感想就是，真希望中国也能拍出这种电影。时代使然，部分底层人希望通过科举谋求出路，但也有一部分人是希望能实现大同与理想而为之，逐渐接触到政治内核后发现曾经奉为圭臬的朱子孔子是有瑕疵的，许多曾设想的政治目标都是难以实现的，于是开始反思，转而寻求其他方向，老庄、佛陀或是耶稣，一种更好的方式就是形成潜流为社会提供大道卓见，“做一个黑色的无名之人，也应该是有意义的吧”。
觉得这件衣服不像是自己的，自己也已经不是自己了..
虽然没有明确对儒学嗤之以鼻地反对，但是抬高基督教也能明显的感受到，丁是有倾向性的。被敲开国民后的社会大概都是这个样子，有识之士想改变大船的航行路线，但是他们看不清什么阻碍了社会的前进，不知道究竟什么才是救命稻草，只能有样学样，全部照学，时代的限制罢了，不过也需要这样的尝试，总归会找到出路的。超脱时代的是丁的态度，无官无贱民无王权，男女平等，现代社会都做不到，超前太多了。至于文人之间的书信往来，诚恳交流，虚心请教，简直是乌托邦了，现在社会更像是影片呈现的暴戾浮躁装糊涂的官场，陷进去就出不来了，没人在乎你说什么，都在一个比烂的环境下找到内心的平衡。征税苛刻，发粮吝啬，要是没有割掉阳具的段落，片子应该还不错，加上之后引起了对类型煽情片的反感
士大夫的出世入世，变革环境下个人的命运和前途，这些宏达的议题在如此小的一个故事里得到了很好的讨论。如此从容不迫去叙述宏达的主题，以小见大一直是李濬益擅长的手法。最后昌大阅读丁若铨遗言的戏不动声色间把我给看哭了，难受。
感觉是高票房和获大奖的节奏，希望票房破千万，然后让我们卞约汉得个大奖吧
“回首向来萧瑟处，归去，也无风雨也无晴”，没有比陌生的地方更好的地儿了。有雅兴，也有血性，有信仰，也在打破执迷。只有寻得知识的初衷、为人的秉性来化解思量，全片的气质让人着迷
读书到底是为了什么？认认真真写一本书、做实业也不错。
7.6/ 这次真的喜欢，也不像以前那样洒血，是泥沼里残留的活力，哪怕不反抗，依然可以称它是自由。我对于李濬益导演始终如一的不满是，依然填充了许多教育意义，企图让人代入其中；如果能让行为大于思想，就会变成杰作，现在已经足够好。如果全部我所学只是为了对我个人的某些事情有所帮助，有什么意义呢？
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